This is a familiar eternal dilemma that everyone has gone through: "What is the perfect time for me to get married?" Finding your dream partner does not mean you have solved the question, on the contrary, it may cause more trouble. Conventionally, marriage is defined as a legal/religious domestic partnership between two individuals. However, each of these two may have a complete different (and sometimes opposite) characters, with different experince and different method of living. Supposedly they are united in love, and that is what makes them go through this uneasy procedure.
Marriage is an unusual experience by all means. To have your beloved girl beside you all the time, sharing life issues together and talking about common daily details sounds really good. Yet, this is only the bright side. Having your girl living with you (whose name now is your 'wife') means in the same time gaining more and more responsibilities and burdens. You will have to forget about this contrived life-style you were leading, including random bed and dinner times, or being absorbed in your work and missing calling your dear wife, etc. Furthermore, your hard-gained pennies will not be enough anymore to establish your house/wife requirments. This means that a lot of work and concentration must be considered.
Never forget to mention "Being-a-father" experience. This is kind of a science fiction thriller if you think of it! You may stick to safe sex for a while but it never lasts. A day will come when your dear wife announce you the 'happy news' and of course you have to pretend to be flying from happiness. It is a wonderful gift indeed but it also means more and more burdens. Say Good-Bye to the late handsome exquisite guy you were!
In the end you have to compromise between your free-style life (which may deprive you of an intimate partner close to you), and a restricted responsible marriage life. You never gain all or lose all and you must make a choice: Your freedom or Kissing the Bride!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
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